Raise the issue of injustices to colonised people, or the number of sexual assaults that take place every day and, inevitably, you will likely hear cries of, “I’m not responsible.”
“I’m not responsible for the atrocities perpetrated by
colonisers two centuries ago,” claim present day descendants of those
colonisers.
“I’m not responsible for the rape of all those women,”
claim many men.
Such claimants are both right and wrong.
Like many words in the English language, the word responsible
has various shades of meaning.
One of those is the sense of being the cause of
something to happen, being responsible for a particular outcome. In this sense, a coloniser who shoots and
kills an indigenous inhabitant because the coloniser wants to appropriate the
land is responsible for that action.
In the same sense, the man who rapes a woman is responsible
for that action.
A descendant of that colonising murderer can fairly
claim to have not been the cause of that murder. A man could equally claim to have not raped that woman.
However, when the issue of responsibility is raised in
these contexts, such a narrow meaning of the word is not what is
meant.
Responsibility also means the ability to think morally
and to make good judgments leading to acting in a helpful and correct
manner.
Thinking responsibly also means having the capacity to
think about the consequences for other people.
When the consequences for others are considered then it becomes clear that a victim of harm and/or trauma never gets the opportunity to not be a victim. A raped woman does not have the luxury to set the rape to one side and to “put it behind” them or to “get over it.”
Thinking responsibly means to recognise this reality.
Inter-generational trauma is well known within
colonised peoples. The consequences of
that ongoing trauma get played out in present day: poor health, inadequate
housing, drug and alcohol issues, greater incarceration rates, lower
educational achievement, lower socio-economic status, and many other social
ills.
A woman who is raped always remembers being raped and
is wary of other men because of that.
So, yes, I may not be responsible (the cause of) a
particular action, but I can, and should be, responsible for thinking morally
and ethically.
Those who are the descendants of colonisers should
encourage responsibility towards creating a society in which colonised people
are able to heal from inter-generational trauma. We should encourage responsibility towards
ensuring that ongoing oppression is halted.
Men should encourage men to take responsibility for
creating a male culture which is respectful of all women. Men should encourage men to take
responsibility for recognising how patriarchal thoughts and actions continue to
support a system in which women are victims of sexual assault.
For this to happen, we should encourage each other to
take responsibility for educating ourselves about how oppression,
victimisation, colonisation, and trauma get played out in our culture.
Finally, we should encourage each other to not get
trapped in the easy refrain of “I’m not responsible.” Instead, we should encourage each other to
recognise that “I can be, and I am, responsible.”
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